There are a variety of things to consider when seducing a cougar and we will consider these over the next few weeks, adding more as they come in and taking on your ideas as well. We'll also suggest resources for you to understand the mindset of a cougar some more as well.
The first rule is control - the balance of control in cougar seduction is an interesting one. These women are confident and know what they want, and certainly want to feel in control of the situation. It's likely they have come from relationships where control was taken away from them, therefore the thrill of being in charge is important to them.
At the same time, you can't afford to be too subservient, cougars want to feel wanted and want you to be a bit of man as well. Let them feel in control in the early stages of seduction and flirtation, but as things heat up, show them you are capable of taking charge. They might want to take the lead for the first kiss for example, but you could lead them to the bedroom. It's a bit of give and take, go with your instinct in the situation. the more aggressive cougars will want more control, the timid ones may need some leading.
Recommended reading - although targetted towards women, this book will give you a great insight into what a cougar is looking for in a cub and their mindset. It's also a fun read, go for it...